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    Summertime Magic

    His head on my thigh, mine on her torso, another on my stomach. Their warmth radiated and we all shared the heat. There was about twenty of us; all under the stars, packed together on a concrete slab outside of Cabin C. The vast sky had a tinge of indigo scattered through it, signaling dawn was on the horizon. We all laid there, staring up at the speckled sky, our eyes graced with an occasional shooting star that left us all in awe. No matter how many we saw that summer (probably over fifty) we were still enchanted and amazed by the beauty the night sky held.

    That summer had only lasted eight weeks, but it was enough to alter my life forever. It was filled with children’s laughter, ticks, swimming on some of the coldest days, wet shoes, complaining children, bucking horses, tears, unfamiliar beetles, riddles, dressing up, many Canada games, Ranchfests, new friendships, and memories that we all will draw upon years from now. Camp Rancho Framasa, settled in the foothills of Brown County, will always have a hold on us and be the reason we have such a link to each other.

    We had spent many nights outside while the kids were fast asleep in their bunks. Conversations lasted until four in the morning even though we all knew we would have to be up in less than four hours. We didn’t care. Spending nights outside, listening to the frogs whose freedom was theirs as soon as the sun went down. They no longer had to fear the stomping feet of campers trucking through their terrain. What mattered was that we were together. A community had formed right before our eyes and we did not even realize it.  In a way, we were our own group. A group of kids that didn’t know each other going into these two months of heat.

    A group just like I had been in many years ago when I was a camper. But instead of two months, I only had one week to make friendships. Going in alone, knowing no one, that one week of the summer would always be my favorite of those scorching months. I remember meeting new people that always seemed more interesting than myself. I remember playing Gold Rush, sprinting through the forest and avoiding roots at every turn. Those scraped knees never prevented me from making memories that I would hold in the back of my mind. The smell of the trees remained the same and making lanyards never seemed dull. It was simply camp magic.

    There was no other way to describe the feeling in my stomach every time my parents took the turn down Clay Lick Road. The songs, the prayers, the people. All of it flooded back in an instant.
    I never would have thought as a nineteen year old that I would have such an awakening experience. Connecting old memories with new, under a night sky that should have seemed familiar. Now, it had a new meaning. Stargazing would forever be linked to the many people who had come into my life in a time I so desperately needed it. I was looking for a reason why I was placed on this Earth and those people, those kids, gave me that muse. Things change, plants grow, people learn. All of this was true. Though camp was almost unchanging, eternal.

    And as I lay there with the weight of his head on my thigh, comfort surrounded me. No feeling of loneliness crept into my bones. My focus on his laugh, the movement of her stomach on the back of my head as she breathed, the stray arm draped across my knee. We were close, we were bonded; connected by the stars that burned so many miles away. The summer had only been eight weeks, but it had felt like a lifetime.

    Taylor Brown
    Summer Staff Member, 2019

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    Celebrations


    My first camp staff Christmas party would have been in December of 1985. I was 17 and the summer of 1985 was the first I spent in my dream job as a summer camp counselor. Back in those days the event was held in the original dining hall. This building was sturdy and filled with history but lacked heat and furniture, sans the camp picnic dining tables. I remember a stinky gas-powered floor heater, where if you stood really close you would experience some warmth but only in the in the smallest of ways. I remember an upside-down pine tree hanging from the rafters that was decorated with a homemade paper chain. I remember a tie-dye t-shirt exchange and huddling together under blankets while trying to play board games. I can’t say for certain which years these things happened only that they were among my first Christmas parties at camp and they often come to my mind when I look back at this incredible time. It is so obvious to me now that these celebrations were so basic, and that I didn’t care. I didn’t care about being cold or any of the other inconveniences. I didn’t care because I was young and in love; I was in love with camp. I had such great friends and a strong sense of belonging that I would have attended the event under any conditions. What they lacked was clearly made up by the shared joy in being together.

    I still experience that strong sense of belonging during Christmas time at camp but not only then. The magic of camp happens year-round, we just get to be together in a unique way at Christmas time. It is of course a celebration of the birth of Jesus and his love for us. It is a celebration of the love we have for each other and the love we have for our community. “Camp people” don’t always get to see each other so events like the Christmas party are important to check in on one another and to connect.
    By today’s standards the summer camp staff Christmas party is still a basic event. It's not a fancy party. We do have heat and now it is not just for summer staff; all of our staff are invited. The gathering is held in our “new” dining hall (the OPC) and there is a pre-lit fake Christmas tree, a nativity scene and a fire in the fireplace. We make personal pizzas, eat junk food, and play board games. Cell phones are plentiful but mostly for taking pictures and interacting with the staff who couldn’t be there in person. We make ornaments and exchange them with each other. People slumber party in the OPC and polar bear plunge in the freezing pond the next day.

    Most importantly we connect just like in 1985, face to face, and we keep the camp love train moving in the right direction.


    The true gift for me all these years later is seeing others experience the being “in love with camp…being in love with Jesus… being in love with life.” What a celebration!

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    Be Prepared!

    It’s my absolute favorite time of year: Advent!  I love the feeling of anticipation, joy, and even chaos!  There are so many things to accomplish, but we also get the chance to take time for family, tradition, and holiday festivities.  I am so appreciative that there is a specific time in our church year where we are asked to reflect and prepare because there are so many other times in our yearly, or even daily, routine where we aren’t given that chance. 

    Camp is given the gift of preparation because what we do changes through the seasons.  The question I get asked all the time is “what does camp do during the winter?”  While it’s true that our programming tends to slow down, we are certainly no less busy.  We get the chance to reflect on what went well for the previous year, what we can improve, and how we can live out our core values of Camper-Centered, Catholic, Humility, Inclusive, Staff Development, and Stewards of the Earth even more.  Because camp operates on a cycle, much like the liturgical year, we get the chance to reflect, reset, and improve on everything from new summer camp programs to new name games. 

    With both camp winter and Advent, there’s such a gift of opportunity: the opportunity to try something new, the opportunity to reach out to the people around us and hear what they have to say, the opportunity to be better people.  I’m personally looking forward to taking full advantage of that gift of opportunity in many facets of my life, and am excited to see what goodness comes of it.


    Laure Owen
    Assistant Camp Director

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    Real Jobs

    The term camp professional doesn’t exactly roll off the tongue of many kids when asked, “what you would like to be when you grow up.” Many people aren’t aware that working in and for camps is a career. The question we are often asked is, “what is your real job or when will you get a real job.”  It is OK, people just don’t understand especially if they haven’t had a camp experience that has changed their life. Camp is pretty real to me and all of my colleagues. Some aspects of working at a camp full time are very businesslike. We have budgets, we hire staff and we market our product which is a camp experience. It is not always easy as we have ups and downs, good years and bad years.  
     
    I am pretty confident though that many of us do not get into the camping business for the business parts, maybe some do but more often I think we are in it for the people and for the opportunity to change lives. Often, we work in the spirit of giving back because our lives were changed at camp. We know camps help people to grow and unfold into who they are meant to be. We know a camp experience can bring out the best in people.
     
    I find this also true for our summer camp staff  and our school year program staff. These young staff members come back year after year, sometimes stealing one last summer or semester before moving on to what most of the world calls a real job to have just  one more opportunity to change a kids life.  
     
    Check out this post from just last week by one of our Program Staff--
     
    “I spent today with a group of inner-city high school Freshmen. They were at camp for a day retreat. Usually I expect freshmen to be “too cool” to answer questions, but instead I got that and so much more. For only 5 hours together they asked me deep questions, I shared prayer experiences, we played team building activities “games.”
    At one point I asked “questions? Comments? Concerns? Fun facts?”
    A girl shot her hand up in the air: “I have a fun fact...well it’s more of a statement...I really thought today was going to be lame, but It’s actually pretty fun.”
    Another girl: “your jokes aren’t funny”
    Groups like this, honest and open to grow, are my favorite. This stuff never gets old.”
    ---Kristy Hamilton, Program Staff
     
    It is true that camp offers one of a kind experiences that change lives and those of us whom are lucky enough to work at a camp have are truly blessed to help make that happen. And that is about as real as it gets to me.
     
    Angi K Sullivan
    Camp Co-director

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    Camp Counselors R Cool

    Whenever I get the chance to interview a prospective counselor, I enjoy getting the chance to tell them about camp.  It’s a huge responsibility and an incredible opportunity to work at camp.  I never miss the opportunity to let these interviewees know that a camp counselor is what I have always considered an Automatically Cool Person.  There is nothing else in the interview that brings so many tilted heads and barely concealed confusion.  But it’s absolutely true: a camp counselor is automatically cool in the eyes of their campers.  Just think, a camp counselor is an adult, but they’re a fun adult.  Adults don’t usually wear tie-dye five days a week, or sing the Weewee song with operatic intensity, or dance to Send Me on My Way while wearing a tutu, but camp counselors do. 

    I think often about my camp counselors and what I loved about them.  They were funny, they were compassionate, they wore silly clothes like they were the most fashionable outfits in the world.  They answered our questions, they learned about our lives, they immediately welcomed us and waved goodbye.  I can’t remember an exact moment when I knew my counselor was cool, but I know that I left camp at the end of the week wanting nothing more than to be a camp counselor. 

    Not only can camp counselors be silly and funny and loud, but they care.  They make their campers feel heard and understood.  They model healthy friendships.  They encourage self-care and good hygiene.  Most importantly, their job is to encourage, rather than deny.  In a world where there are so many expectations that kids are expected to meet, how great is it that camp counselors give them the chance to just be themselves?  We often talk about how we could hold camp in a parking lot, and I know that it’s absolutely true.  Take away the activities, the cabins, the creek, the games, and camp is still camp because of the people that are there.  Being an Automatically Cool Person gives you the chance to be a role model, to show everyone that you can be accepted just by being yourself.

    Lauren Owen
    Assistant Camp Director

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    Musings on the Camp Experience

    The camp experience begins with a registration.  After registration comes packing, and then travel and of course arrival! Most who arrive at camp are at least a little bit nervous as camp can be a bit of a mystery and when it is someone’s first time there a lot of unknowns including the food, the grounds, and the people. The friendly, smiling faces of camp staff upon arrival helps folks begin to warm up and settle in for the experience which can include games, archery, high ropes, low ropes, hikes, crafts, classes, boating, campfires, Mass, and more. All which are participated in and accomplished without technology.

    But… It almost doesn’t matter (almost) what activities or program you’ve come to camp to experience because honestly it is the connective pieces, of faith, fun, kindness, conversation, nature, laughter, and prayer, that make the experience. I recently heard a staff member say, “Technology cannot give you all of this” as he looked out into the trees.

    As a 32 year “camp person” I’ve been privileged to be a part of so many of those connective pieces, and I know in our changing world where technology is at the forefront of our lives, that a camp experience is more important than ever.

    The proof for me is in the experience…

    I’ve experienced the smiles and the laughter. I’ve heard the songs being loudly and expressively sung. I have sat in the middle of the woods with a group of kids for no reason other than to listen in to the natural world and I have watched them be wowed. I have experienced moments of deep faith and grace. I have walked along side a camper on a horse who are working hard to overcome a fear. I have answered questions from overwhelmed and scared parents. I’ve hugged a homesick summer camper who I know can make it until check-out, even though she’s not sure. I have had the immense pleasure of watching 70 college age staff pull the thread through the moments of summer camp to make a week the best week of the summer for many, many hundreds of children. I have equally been awed by school year program staff who do it all in one day…food service, clean, facilitate activities, get kids to think and make them laugh, and smile through it all. None of this required my phone or the internet. It only required me to show up, be present, and hold the space for the experience to happen.   

    It is true that the activities and programs bring us together but once together the less tangible takes over and makes the real impact which links us to God, one another and meaning in this chaotic world.

    Angi K Sullivan
    Camp Co-director